Recently, I spent the weekend helping a friend move into her new house, and let me tell you—it was eye-opening. She had duplicates of almost everything. And it instantly reminded me of what so many of us do at Christmas. Most of us moms go into December on autopilot. We shop without a plan, pile on too many activities, and overcommit until the holiday magic feels more like holiday madness. But Christmas doesn’t have to feel this way. If you’re ready to cut the chaos and focus on what … [Read more...] about How to Cut the Chaos and Actually Enjoy Christmas This Year
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3 Surprising Lessons Homeschooling Taught Me (That Every Mom Needs)
I always said, "I could never homeschool. I’m not a teacher, I don’t have the patience, and I definitely don’t have the time." And yet, here I am, three weeks in. What I’ve learned completely surprised me. The truth is, the lessons I’ve learned through homeschooling aren’t just for moms who are teaching at home. They’re lessons every mom can use because they’re really about simplifying, structuring, and letting go. Here’s what homeschooling taught me (the hard way) that can make any … [Read more...] about 3 Surprising Lessons Homeschooling Taught Me (That Every Mom Needs)
Dear Mom: You’re Doing a Great Job (Even If No One Says It)
I’ll never forget the day someone told me I was doing a good job as a mom. My son was less than a year old, and we were at church when a sweet woman stopped me and said, “You’re doing such a good job with him.” And you know what? That one comment made my whole day—honestly, my whole year. The crazy thing is… that’s the first and last time I’ve heard those words. At work, I get recognition. Playing sports, I get high fives. But in motherhood? The cheers are few and far between. And … [Read more...] about Dear Mom: You’re Doing a Great Job (Even If No One Says It)
How to Reset a Chaotic Morning with These Simple Mom Hacks
You know those mornings when you wake up already behind, and the day hasn’t even started yet? Yeah… that was me this week. I went to bed exhausted and skipped prepping for homeschool. The next morning, I was scrambling. Printing assignments, pulling books, trying to catch up on work, while my kids moved slower than molasses. By the time breakfast was made and everyone was settled, I was already 37 minutes late logging into work. And of course, my husband strolled in from his … [Read more...] about How to Reset a Chaotic Morning with These Simple Mom Hacks
3 Small Tweaks to Make Your Routines Smoother
Is it just me, or does September feel like everything hits at once? Getting the kids to school.After-school activities.Homework.Earlier mornings. It can feel like your routines are unraveling before they’ve even started. If that’s you, you’re not alone. And here’s the good news—you don’t need to overhaul your entire life to make things work better. Sometimes all it takes are a few small tweaks. Today, I want to share three simple adjustments that can make your fall routines smoother … [Read more...] about 3 Small Tweaks to Make Your Routines Smoother
Why Small Steps, Presence, and Grace Matter More Than Perfection
Can I give you a simple reminder today? You’re doing better than you think. Sometimes what we need most isn’t another list, another hack, or another strategy. Sometimes we just need a breath, a pause, and a word of encouragement. And that’s what this post is all about. Because here’s the truth: progress doesn’t have to be a big, huge deal. In fact, it rarely is. It’s the little things that add up. And to help you hold onto that truth, I want to share three lessons. Lesson … [Read more...] about Why Small Steps, Presence, and Grace Matter More Than Perfection
3 Lessons to Help Moms Navigate Life’s Transitions with Grace
The other day, my son looked at me and said, “Mommy, when I turn 13, I’m going to stop calling you mommy. I’ll just call you mom.” My heart sank. “Absolutely not!” I blurted out. Because let’s be real, when he calls me “mommy,” I can still pretend he’s my little boy. But “mom”? That sounds like a whole teenager. That sounds like him growing up faster than I’m ready for. The funny thing is, I did the exact same thing to my own mom at that age. I dropped the “mommy” for just “mom.” … [Read more...] about 3 Lessons to Help Moms Navigate Life’s Transitions with Grace
How to Finish the Year Strong: A Harvest Reflection for Moms
When you think of September, you might picture school buses, new backpacks, and the start of a new routine. But when I think of September, I think of farmers. This is harvest season. Farmers are out in the fields gathering what’s grown, clearing away what’s no longer useful, and preparing for the next season. It’s busy, yes. But it’s also deeply meaningful. And the more I thought about it, the more I realized September can be the same for us as moms. Why Fall Matters as Much as … [Read more...] about How to Finish the Year Strong: A Harvest Reflection for Moms
Why You Don’t Need a Perfect Reset This Fall
September has a way of sneaking up on us, doesn’t it? One minute it’s still summer, and the next you’re expected to have the lunches packed, the emails answered, and dinner magically ready by six. If you’ve been feeling like life is a little messy right now, you’re not alone. This year, September feels especially new for me because we’ve officially started homeschooling. A fourth grader and a seventh grader, right at my kitchen table. On the outside, I’m excited about this new chapter. … [Read more...] about Why You Don’t Need a Perfect Reset This Fall
Clarity Comes First: The Real Secret to Lasting Change for Moms
Have you ever had one of those moments when life holds up a mirror and you barely recognize the person looking back? I had that moment not too long ago. On a recent trip, I saw myself in candid photos. Not the cute, posed ones we like to share, but the real-life snapshots where nothing is hidden. And let me tell you, what I saw surprised me. My uniform didn’t fit, I had to buy a bigger size, and even then, I thought I was doing a good job of hiding the truth. But the photos? They … [Read more...] about Clarity Comes First: The Real Secret to Lasting Change for Moms